Ok so I have several friends, if you can call them that, that are terribly mean. Not to me personally, but to others. I don't understand how one can make fun of big and different girls when they haven't even done anything to them. And they claim that they were picked on and made fun of when they were kids in high school and yet they are doing the exact same thing now. If I'm not mistaken, I believe it's considered to be "cyber bullying".
Being one of those outcasts that were made fun of and picked on I would never imagine maliciously make fun of someone because of how they looked and or the weird things they do. I can stand up for myself now and if anyone chose to start something, I can make them very sorry they ever decided to, BUT I will never allow myself to ever be put in that situation. I mind my own business and I make fun of no one else but myself.
Facebook is a big pool of drama. Any social media site is for that matter. But the only one I can currently speak of right now is that one. I post dumb stuff. My intentions are to mostly make people laugh majority of the time at the expense of myself. And I think I accomplish that very well. I have no shame and I say what I want. But like I've said before it never is to bash anyone. When people go on a rant when they are upset at what other people posts, as innocent at it is, it amazes me how much it gets under peoples skin. Who cares if someone takes selfies... who cares if people posts how much they love their husbands... who cares if a bigger girl want to dress in a small skirt and post pics of themselves looking all ratchet (confidence? either way)... who cares if someone posts tons of pics of their families, or the food they ate for dinner... who cares if people sends you game requests. It's not the most terrible things that they're posting, its not hurting anyone, but it makes the people who are "ranting" or "bullying" seem like petty, jealous, unhappy, miserable, drama queens that are just looking for a fight or simply for attention...
but that is all just my opinion. I like attention too, but not that kind. I'm not mean... I know I have a good heart... crazy brain and odd personality... but nonetheless a good heart. And I always say I can lose the weight, but you can't change your ugly heart.
